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Should you
send this?

It's 1am. You've typed it, deleted it and typed it again, and you genuinely cannot tell any more whether it sounds normal or whether it sounds like a lot.

Paste it here first. A straight answer, the exact words costing you, and better ways to say the same thing — in about four seconds.

u up?DON'T congrats on the new job!! so proud of uSEND i'm not mad i just think it's interesting that…DON'T tacos thursday?SEND k.DON'T thanks for last night, had a really good timeSEND hey stranger 👀DON'T
just saw this and thought of youSEND why didn't you replyDON'T running 10 late, sorry!!SEND can we talkDON'T free this weekend?SEND no worries if not!!! totally fine!!!DON'T i miss usDON'T
Paste

The message you are about to send — or share it straight from Messages. Say who it is for and what is going on.

Read

SEND IT or DON'T SEND, one line on why, and the readings behind it.

Fix

Rewrites in up to six styles, keeping every detail you actually wrote.

Try it

Would you send it?

Five real-sounding texts. Make the call, then see what SEND? says.

To: crush11:48 pm
hey sorry to bother you again but did you see my last message?

Why it isn't a writing assistant

It commits to an answer.

Ask a chatbot whether to send something and it will tell you that it depends, that both options have merit, and that you should do what feels right. That is not help. That is the same paralysis with more words.

SEND? picks one. Send it or don't, and a sentence naming the actual thing — the apology you opened with, the three days you mentioned, the question you never got round to asking. You can disagree with it. You cannot come away with nothing.

Other apps write your texts.
This one tells you if
yours actually lands.

What you get

A verdict, then the evidence.

The answer, in one word

DON'T SEND in red, or SEND IT in green, with one line saying why — specific to this message, not to messages in general. Under it, the single reading that explains the verdict: the loudest thing in what you wrote, as a number.

SEND? on iPhone showing DON'T SEND in red, the line “You apologised twice before you asked anything”, and 34% desperation as the loudest reading

Your own words, marked up

The draft comes back with the lines that cost you highlighted where they sit — so “sorry to bother” is not an item in a list further down, it is the third phrase of the thing you are about to send, glowing. Each one quoted back with the reason it lands badly.

The breakdown on iPhone: quoted phrases “sorry to bother”, “just wondering” and “friday”, each with a line explaining what it does to the reader

Six ways to say it

Confident, direct, casual, mysterious, warm and funny — and you only get the ones that suit this message, not six for the sake of six. Every concrete detail you wrote is kept: the place, the day, the plan. Nothing invented on your behalf.

Confident😤Copy
Ramen Friday. I'll book us for 8.
Direct🎯Copy
Want to get ramen on Friday?
Casual🫡Copy
yo. ramen friday?
Mysterious🌚Copy
friday. 8pm. bring an appetite.
Warm🫶Copy
been craving ramen with you all week. friday?
Funny😂Copy
ramen friday or i riot.

Built for the group chat

Two ways to share it.

Which is, if we are honest, what you were going to do anyway.

💬Straight from Messages. Share a screenshot or a selected text to SEND? and it opens ready to check — no copying, no switching back and forth.

Your texting type

Sixteen types.
You are one of them.

Check four messages and SEND? works out what kind of texter you actually are — from your scores, your hours, who you write to and how you type. Then it hands you a badge and you can argue about it in the group chat.

It reads none of your messages to do it. Every number behind a type is counted on your phone as you go and nothing you wrote is kept.

✨ Your type unlocks on your fourth check

One type, not a collection

You do not unlock these. You are one of them, and it only changes when you do — a type that flipped every time you checked a message would be a mood ring, not a personality. Tap the badge, turn it over in your hand, send it to whoever needs to see it.

The SEND? profile screen on iPhone showing the Hedge Fund badge, the line “Every ask arrives wrapped in three maybes”, and the count of hedges behind it
😵‍💫

The Overthinker

You check everything and send almost none of it.

🙇

Sorry In Advance

You say sorry before you've done anything.

📜

The Essayist

Nobody asked for the paragraph. You sent it anyway.

🤏

Man of Few Words

Four words, maximum. Let them wonder.

🌙

The 3AM Philosopher

Nothing good has ever been typed at 3am.

💔

The Ex Files

That chapter is closed. You keep rereading it.

🧊

Unbothered

You do not chase. It shows in the numbers.

😈

Certified Menace

It was a terrible idea and you sent it anyway.

😎

Smooth Operator

Confident, warm, and it lands. Annoyingly.

💼

Strictly Business

Even your flirting has an agenda item.

🌟

Hopeless Romantic

You always think this one's going to work out.

🫣

The Hedge Fund

Every ask arrives wrapped in three maybes.

🫠

no caps ever

capital letters are for people with something to prove

💭

The Trail Off

You never quite finish the...

📣

Full Volume

Three exclamation marks minimum!!!

🐣

Fresh Meat

Not enough evidence yet. Keep going.

History · Pro

What you almost sent.

Part of Pro: every verdict, kept on your phone — the call and the reason, never your words. Turn on Keep messages and the texts stay too, for seven days, with an optional Face ID lock. Nothing is uploaded and nothing is backed up.

Today

hey sorry to bother you again but i was just wondering…DON'T
Ramen Friday. I'll book us for 8.SEND

Yesterday

i'm not drunk i just think we should talkDON'T
congrats on the new job!! so proud of uSEND

Pricing

Three checks, free.

Every free check gets the verdict and the reason. Pro unlocks the rest, on every message: the exact phrases dragging it down, whether they are likely to reply, the thread counts, every rewrite, your texting type — and History.

Pro is $3.99 a week or $24.99 a year, which works out at about 48 cents a week. Prices vary by country. It renews until you cancel, and you cancel in the App Store rather than by emailing us.

Privacy

Nobody reads this but you.

There is no account and no sign-up, so there is nothing for a message to be attached to. Nothing you type is stored — a draft exists for as long as it takes to judge it, and then it is gone. With Pro, History keeps your verdicts on your phone, never your words, unless you turn on Keep messages: then they stay on your phone only, for seven days, with an optional Face ID lock.

A full analysis is read once by our model provider and held briefly by them, tied to nothing that identifies you. Screenshots of a conversation are read on your phone; the picture is never uploaded. The full detail is in the privacy policy.

DON'T SEND

…not before you check it.

Free on iPhone. No account, ever.